Jude was expressing how cool it is that my mom, Grandma Forbes, has reddish (not gray) hair even though she is a grandma. After letting him go on and on for awhile discussing all the gray haired grandmas he knows and how special his red haired grandma is, I finally disclosed that she dyes her hair. I further explained that I was going to have to dye my hair for the first time pretty soon, given all the silver hairs I pluck out with a tweezers on a weekly basis. Jude exclaimed, “Have you ever heard the phrase, ‘be yourself!?!'”