Andy & Jessica

I love my hometown of Litchfield, but one bad thing about that small town is that rumors swirl around quite fast. Apparently there is a rumor making its rounds about how Andy and I met at my sister and her husband’s wedding in June and were engaged three weeks later. Not true. I’m guessing that it is being portrayed as quite the scandal since people in town know me as being level-headed and responsible. This rumor paints me in a different light – much more impulsive. The true story is that Andy and I met on January 17, 2004. My sister and her husband (then boyfriend) were over at my house for the day. My sister’s husband called his good friend Andy and told him to stop by. Andy came over to my house and that’s when it all began. My sister and her husband got married on June 5, 2004. I was the maid of honor and Andy was a groomsman. About 7 weeks after their wedding, Andy and I got engaged.

Just 47 more days until our wedding. I lost count over the weekend. I thought there were 49 days left. I’m stressed, but that is nothing new. Andy is calm. We made some progress this weekend on our wedding plans. We got our engagement picture taken, we talked to the officiating pastor (my cousin’s husband) about the ceremony, bought some decorations for the reception, and worked on the vows. Andy has been an enormous help. He has helped me make every decision (even about the tiniest details). He is also in charge of some big projects, like putting together a slide show and designing our programs.

Andy turned 27 years old on Friday, November 5th. I don’t think he was that excited to get a year older, but I kind of was. You see, until Friday, I was 28 while Andy was only 26. (I am a year and 3 months older than Andy.) Now that I’m still 28 and he is 27, that sounds a lot better to me. Still, it kind of stinks that he will never catch up to me.

To celebrate Andy’s birthday, on Friday we went to Fuddrucker’s with his family. On Saturday, we went to church, then to Comedy Sportz and finally to Doolittle’s Air Cafe.

Almost needless to say, we barely made any progress on wedding plans this weekend because we were so busy. Just 53 more days!

I’ve been getting a lot of spam in the comments for my main blog, and had to close off the commenting on all posts older than 20 days. It carried over to this blog as well, even though I haven’t gotten any spam on this one yet. We love comments, but can’t keep them open long because of the spam factor. If you’d like to leave a comment, and we hope you do, please feel free to leave it under a newer post if the one you wish to comment on is closed.

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Many people have asked us why we choose to get married on January 1st. To be honest, I’m not exactly sure how we arrived there, but I do know that it was the very first decision we made relating to the wedding. We decided firmly on January 1st before we had a pastor and before we had a place. This is how I think we arrived at the January 1st date:

Timing. Andy proposed to me on July 23, 2004. We didn’t want to wait too long to get married (1 Corinthians 7 teaches, “for it is better to marry than to burn with passion”). But, an August wedding wasn’t really possible and my parents would have killed me since they recently gave my sister away to be married after a 3-month engagement. September would have been too soon. Same with October. November would have been pushing it, but it would have been possible. December just wouldn’t have been very convenient because everyone is busy with Christmas. So, January it was!

Saturday. January 1st happened to land on a Saturday so that pretty much sealed the deal.

The holiday. January 1st never had much significance to me. As far as I can remember, I’ve never celebrated New Years’ Eve. I’ve never been to a NYE party. I remember trying to stay up a couple times to watch the ball drop, but I don’t think I was successful at staying awake both those times. So, I thought that I would transform what was otherwise a normal day to me into something exciting and special. (Sorry to all of you normal people who customarily have New Years’ plans. Hope you can still make it!)

Easy to remember anniversaries. Andy (or I for that matter) will not have any reason to forget our anniversary.

Andy’s lease. Andy’s lease was up December 31, 2004. How convenient!

Great start. We thought it would a great way to start the new year.

It is so hard to believe that in 65 days I’ll be a married woman. Crazy! But, don’t worry, it’s not the marriage I’m worried about. Rather, I’m worried about the event. I kind of freaked out today when my mom pointed out another person I forgot to include on the invitation list. Just last week, Andy’s mom pointed out that our list failed to include Andy’s brother, the best man. It just makes me wonder who else we forgot. So if you are reading this and you don’t get an invitation (we plan to send them out this weekend), come anyway.

While preparation for the wedding is a little stressful, preparation for marriage is going smoothly. Andy and I have been taking pre-marital classes through a church in Maple Grove that we may attend after we are married. Our class meets Wednesday nights. Class is wrapping up. We have about 5 sessions left. We have learned a lot about the differences between men and women, about conflict resolution, etc. I think we will have a happier marriage because of what we learned in class.

A few people have mentioned that they noticed we haven’t posted in a while. We don’t post really often, but we do like to put something new up from time to time. One problem we have lies in that I would like to keep the wedding information post near the top so that people have easy access to it, since it has valuable information about where to get a hotel room and where the wedding will be.

As you check to see if we have new posts, take a second to scroll down a little. I will try to keep the wedding information no higher than the second post on the list, so the newest is at the top, but there may be posts that you’ve missed below the wedding information.

I also want to thank everyone for the great responses we’ve gotten to this site. Many of you have said that it’s been fun to go through all the archives, see all the pictures, and read what we’ve written so far. It’s been fun for us too. Jessica has said she loves adding pictures, and I know she likes writing when she can too.

Wedding plans are coming along well. We have a few things that we need to do between now and January 1, but a lot is getting done. This weekend we plan to go to Fargo. Jessica will take advantage of the time she will have with her sister Katie to get some more things done. Katie has already been a great help, and I appreciate what they can get done together. We also plan to meet with Tom, our jeweler, to discuss wedding bands and hopefully get them picked out. Tom is a great friend of mine from my college days and got me a great deal on the diamond that I got for Jessica back in July.

If you enjoy the blog experience, feel free to check out my personal blog, “έχω ζωη”. I tend to write more on matters of Faith, as well as current events. My political views tend to come out from time to time there too. I’ve been writing on that blog for over a year, and enjoy writing things that bring readers back regularly.

Okay, now there are only 79 days until the big day. In other words, 11 weekends left. And there is still so much to do! We are pushing to get invitations filled out this weekend. My sister will be in town to help and I think Andy’s mom is planning to help. Andy and I want to have them in the mail by the end of October. Writing neatly isn’t one of my strengths (notice how my print is nicely disguised by these typewritten words). But, I found some calligraphy pens that make my print look better than it really is. Too bad I already addressed some envelopes with a regular black pen. Other than working on invitations, I’ll spend my weekend shopping for wedding stuff with my sister and attending a cousin’s bridal shower.

P.S. I just noticed while I was checking this post for typos that I was gnawing on my already super short fingernails. I must be a little stressed or something.